Who Are You Honoring This Memorial Day?

Each year when Memorial Day comes around I try to watch all the military movies (the ones based on history) that I have. I want to remind myself of the important reasons that the men and women of the armed forces have fought. And of the sacrifices they have made for our country, for you, and for me.

It saddens me when I see retail sales overwhelm the real significance of this day. A day to remember the lives lost, the lives forever changed by injury, the families who sacrifice time with their loved ones, and the families who wait eagerly for their safe return. Continue reading “Who Are You Honoring This Memorial Day?”

How Forgiveness Saved Me

In order to understand how forgiveness saved me, you must understand the last four years of my life. Why I fell down a long dark hole and had to forgive before I could start the climb to freedom.

For days I’d felt stressed out and sick. The company I worked for was beginning another round of layoffs, another 300 people, at least one from each department. Just before Thanksgiving they’d laid off over 1000 people. Office chatter inevitably turned to who would make it through the cuts and who wouldn’t. I began avoiding the coffee station. One of the managers in my department had been actively looking to find anything bad about me, from any source and by any means, that he could. It didn’t matter if it was true either. Despite being a hard worker and good at my job, I keenly felt the target on my back. Continue reading “How Forgiveness Saved Me”

Hi Mom Happy Mother’s Day

Happy Mother’s Day to moms all around the world!

Your sons and daughters want you to know that we love you! I asked several friends to share their favorite memories of their mom with me. Throughout this post, I’ll share the special moments that have affected their lives.


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Mother’s Shape Our Lives

Our mother’s are with us for our entire lives. Not true you say? OK, you do have me on a technicality.

Life is a cycle that’s supposed to go like this; we’re born, we grow up, we get married and have kids, and when we’re old our parents go to heaven. The cycle is then repeated with our own children. However, that’s overly simplified. In each cycle there are overlapping periods of interaction. It’s those moments that become the story of our lives and the memories that allow us to hold on to our mother’s forever.

A Mother’s Understanding is a Security Blanket

Ordinary everyday items can become a security blanket to children. For me, it was a blanket. My mother still has the remaining one-inch strip of fabric. For others, it’s a pacifier or a special stuffed animal, comfort comes in many forms. Continue reading “Hi Mom Happy Mother’s Day”

3 Keys to Improving Your Life

Welcome to my new website. Who am I? I’m a woman like you; struggling to: adapt to changes in life, persevere, take care of my family, and successfully manage day-to-day life, all the while attempting to improve myself. Over the last decade, I’ve learned from my failures and successes, from watching those close to me, and by listening to and learning from trusted mentors. I discovered that life has three essential parts.

Live Laugh Love

Live, laugh, and love is my new life philosophy. Embracing these three things has brought new joy and happiness to my life and I know it can for you too.

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